Thursday, April 14, 2011
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Work Cited
"About SCCADVASA." SCCADVASA. N.p., 2011. Web. 29 Mar. 2011
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Couric, Katie. "30% of Teens Report Abuse in Relationships." CBS New. N.p., 3 Dec. 2011. Web. 6 Apr. 2011. </http://www.cbsnews.com/sections/eveningnews/main3420.shtml>.
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Apr. 2011. <http://www.cbsnews.com/sections/eveningnews/main3420.shtml>.
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Thursday, April 7, 2011
Reflection Paragraph on Sources
The sources that I used on my blog to get information were from organizational websites and news articles. I used more of the site of organization that help and gave advice to teens and parents. Also I found great interviews on teen victims; who shared their experience of being abused by their girlfriend/ boyfriend off of news websites. These were the helpful websites The SafePlace, Love is Respect, and CBS News; these were also credible sources. The website, The SafePlace because the website is teen friendly and enlightens more of the signs of abuse for teens said parents.The most trustworthy information was from CBS News because it gave powerful information on real teens who wanted to share their story to the world, so that one day a girl or boy who is being abused can be inspired to get help. Recent updates were done on the authors, and publishers, which made CBS a more credible source. The source that displayed bias was The Safe Place because the site only gave information on the victims and not how to help the abuser; since they have the real problem.
Reflection Paragraph on Process
During my process I felt many feelings such as excitment, concerned, and self assuted. The process during my search was in bewteen easy and diffcult. Some parts were easier than other, which was finding creditable organizations that helped teen victims and news artilces on teens sharing their story about being abused. I think the hardest part of the search was finding creditable website that contained statics and facts about the percentage of teens being abuse, and defining the types of abuse. Many of the sites were unreliable because they did not have enough information on the site; such as, the author, webpage last updated, and publication. I enjoyed finding reliable sources that had great information on my topic. Also I was so excited about my blog being the first website people see when they search for teen’s in abusive relationships abuse Google. Sadly, I dislike doing the work cited for all my sources and websites, but still that made my blog look more creditable. If I were to do the project over again, I would have found my research earlier, so I could check over my sources and not have to go back over my resources.
Reflection Paragraph on Findings
During this process, I realize that some information uncovered was harder to group than others. By writing the finding paragraphs I found important facts and information on teens in abusive relationship. I learned the signs of abuse, the statics of teenagers being abused, and nationwide organizations. The most important facts that I learned was that thirty-nine percent of teens and women experience emotional abuse.(Child Abuse) I think that many teen who that read my finding paragraphs will be surprised that the rate is low, but really many teens do not inform anyone about being abuse; this could explain the low rates. While writing my second finding paragraph, I was surprised to find that there are so many organizations locally and nationwide. I found out that there are local organizations such as the SCCADVASA in my community for teens who have been victims of abuse. There are other organizations online that teens and parents can find information on signs of abuse in teen relationships. In all of my finding paragraphs I have found research to answer my essential questions. Another one question, which I still would like to answer, is what a person can do if the abused victim chooses to remain in the abusive relationships. Personnally, I would have a difficult time finding information on how to get a victim out of an abusive relationship; even though they want to stay with their abuser. Before doing this research, I did not think I would get really attached to my topic, but now I feel that my topic can help teens all over the nation, even the world. I feel empowered to reach teens, parents and victims of abuse.
Worldle #2
There were various words that helped me find creditable researches on teen abuse in relationships. The words that are bolder and larger such as, violence, love, and relationship helped me find some great sources. When I typed those into a website engine, I received all kinds news articles, organizations, and websites. Other important words in my Wordle, where the following: organizations, community, victims, and parenting. Also I used colors such as, grey, blue, and violent because they represent power, gloomy, and mix emotions.
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Finding Paragraph # 3
If parents get more involved in their teens lives, and researchof signs of abuse, this can reduce teen dating abuse. So many parents do not even know what is going on in their teen’s life and even less about their teen’s relationships. This could be the reason why, seventy five percent of parents do not know that their teenager is in a harmful relationship. (Family Circle Magazine) Family Circle Magazine, shows that more than half the parents they interviewed did not know their teen was being abuse by their boyfriend or girlfriend. There was an article written about the signs parents should look for in an unhealthy relationship. Betty Wong executive editor of the magazine explains what parents should look for if a teen is being abuse. She emphasized that parents should look for their teen to show signs of change such as, grades falling, changes the way they dress, and stop participating in family activities; these are signs that they are being controlled. Also, there are many organizations that can enlighten parents about the signs of abuse and how to help their teen get out of the abusive relationship. This is an article about teenage girl named Lindsay Burke, who was killed by her twenty-one year old boyfriend when she tried to leave him; he stabbed her to death. Her mother states ". That a few months into the relationship, the mother noticed changes in her daughter. She became more secretive, obsessed with instant messaging and was distancing herself from her friends.” (CBS News) Lindsay's mother had notice a those changes, but did not think anything, eventually she noticed the signs of abuse, and they went to several counselors. Eventually, Lindsay left her abusive boyfriend after two years of abuse, but sadly on September 14, 2005 he had stabbed her to death at his house. To honor her daughter, Ann had gotten a law passed in Rhode Island to have classes held on teen dating violence in middle and high school. This was done to start a dialouge between youth and adults about what are healthily love relationships. And to recognized in time the rate of teen dating violence would be reduced. “Perhaps the best advice for a parent is to start talking about what constitutes a healthy, respectable relationship early to your child." (Love is Not Abuse) Love is Not Abuse is an organization that focuses on teen dating violence, types of abuse, and how to get a teen out of the harmful relationship. Many parents do not know anything about abuse and never think that their own teen would ever be a victim of abuse. Parents need to start talking to their teens now about different types of abuse and what is a healthy relationship and what is not. Also, if their teen knows someone who is being abusedthey should know to tell their parent, counselor, or authority. If parents start communicating with their teens about abuse and signs of abuse it can stop the teen dating violence.
Johnson, Caitlin A. "When Teen Dating Turns Bad." CBS News. com. N.p., 2011. Web. 21 Mar. 2011. http://www.cbsnews.com/.
Miller, Elizabeth. "About Abuse Relationship." Love Is Not Abuse. N.p., 2011. Web. 5 Apr. 2011. http://loveisnotabuse.com/web/guest/home.
Couric, Katie. "30% of Teens Report Abuse in Relationships." CBS News.com. N.p., 3 Dec. 2009. Web. 5 Apr. 2011. <http://www.cbsnews.com/sections/eveningnews/main3420.shtml>. Finding Paragraph # 2
More local and communits agencies can help develop more awareness programs for victims.There are many online organizations that teens and adults can look up information on abuse and on helping victims such as; The Safe Place, Love Is Not Abuse , and Love Is Respect . However, there are local organizations that tend to victims of abuse. "SCCADVASA helps shows issues, of policy and legislation regarding Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse." According to (Love Shouldn't Hurt), SCCADVASA is local organization that help adults and teens in domestic violence relationships who have been sexually abuse. The SCCADVASA stands for South Carolina Coalition against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault and is a local corporation that promotes community awerness of domestic violence and teen dating violence. They service and shelter victims; who have been victimized and assaulted in abusive relationships.SCCADVASA does this by helping and attending to victims throughout the community and participating in April Sexual Assault Awareness Month and October Domestic Awareness Month. Also, the organzations creats an awareness by posting flyers on domestic violence and teen dating violence in community centers, colleges, and corner stores. Local and community agency can help stop teen dating violence and prevent sexual abuse in the relationships by linking with SCCADVASA. Teens in abusive relationship can be affected when they grow into adults. In many schools, such as mine, there are posters and flyers hanging up to show teens call to call or stop by local organizations if they are being abused or know someone who is. Putting these organizations in the community may really help teens be aware of the signs of abuse and how they get out of an abusive relationship. Domestic violence in teen relationships can affect teens when they become adults. Many teens my age, experience some type of abuse in their relationship; which could affect their future. One example would be a teen girl named Ayza Alvarze; who was a victim of teen dating violence. "I didn't tell her about the sexual abuse, how they tried to control me. I didn't see it as a problem. I thought it happened; I'll get over it and move on. I didn't realize how it would affect relationships I had later." (Alvarze) She was only fifteen, in her first relationships and thought that a healthy relationship was being control by her boyfriend. Ayza was even being pressured to have sex, but still did not tell her parents. After she finally got out of her first relationship, she stepped into a new relationship, but the abuse still continued. Eventually, she got out of those unhealthily relationships by the helpof her parents and learned a life lesson about growing up and how being abuse had affected her, and how she learned and grew from her mistakes. Abuse will affect teens today, and in the future because; without the guidance of organizations, parents, or friends, teen victims will grow up into adults and sadly may become a victim of domestic violence. According to SafePlace, "Even though teen relationships may be different from adult relationships in many ways, teens still do experience the same types of physical, sexual, verbal and emotional abuse as adults do. ( SafePlace) Teens in abusive relationships can be affected in the future because if they do not get help or counseling it can lead to domestic violence. Domestic violence is seen in marriages or adult relationships and is closely related to teen dating violence because both can cause victims to be abused physically, mentally, sexually. Teens need to learn how to get out of an unhealthily relationships, and know the signs of abuse; so when they become adults it won't lead to them being abused in marriages. Adding local and community agencies can reduce teen dating and domestic violence in generation to come. "Scares of the abuse may heal, but the remembrance of it never goes away. ( Bellamy)
"About SCCADVASA." SCCADVASA. N.p., 2011. Web. 29 Mar. 2011
. <http://www.sccadvasa.org/about-us/
"About SCCADVASA." SCCADVASA. N.p., 2011. Web. 29 Mar. 2011
. <http://www.sccadvasa.org/about-us/
Johnson, Caitlin A. "When Teen Dating Turns Bad." CBS News. com. N.p., 2011. Web. 21 Mar. 2011. http://www.cbsnews.com/.
" The Safe Place.org. Break the Cycle , 2009. Web. 16 Mar. 2011. Friday, April 1, 2011
Finding Paragraph # 1
There can be mental abuse and physical in teen relationships; however, mental abuse is seen more often in these relationships. Mental abuse is the reason why teen victims stay with their abuser. Most people think that abuse is physical such as punching, kicking, or smacking a person around. "Mental abuse is emotional domestic abuse that inflicts physiological or emotional suffering or fear.” (Mama’s Health) According to Mama’s Health, mental abuse is seen more in teen relationships than physical abuse. The worst abuse has to be mental abuse because it can inflict humiliation, depression, and can lead to suicide in victims. The reason is that abusers manipulate their victims by making them feel powerless; they make them feel less than human. Victims often stay with their abusers because they believe that they deserve to be abused and that they could not function without their abuser. "In 1996, the National Clearinghouse on Family Violence, for Health Canada, reported that 39% of married women or common-law wives suffered emotional abuse by husbands/partners. " A 1995 survey of women 15 and over 36-43% reported emotional abuse during childhood or adolescence, and 39% experienced emotional abuse in marriage or dating." This report does not address boys or men suffering emotional abuse from families or intimate partners. (Child Abuse) This research from the Child Abuse blog is about how child abuse can affect the child in the future and relates to how mental abuse is seen more in relationships. The link from the source provides statistics on how forty-three percent of women interviewed reported that they have experienced emotional abuse and thirty-nine percent experienced emotional abuse during dating or marriage. Over all, mental abuse in seen more in teen relationships and is the reason teens stay in with their abuser. "He would abuse her mentally and physically over and over, but she stayed with him and loved him because she believed that was a normal relationship for her." (CBS News) This is an interview from CBS News. A teenage girl name Trina described her experience when she was in an abusive relationship. The interview also describes how the abuse was physical, but mental abuse played a huge factor in her relationship and was harder for her to break away from her abuser. Trina was manipulated into believing that a normal relationship is to be abused everyday by her boyfriend. She even thought it was true love and how she could not function without him. These are signs of a victim being mentally abused, which causes teens to stay in their abusive relationship. (Katie Couric)
Miya. "Preliminary Links ." Miya,s I- Search . N.p., 23 Mar. 2011. Web. 5 Apr. 2011. http://miyadavisisearch.blogspot.com/.
"Emotional abuse in teenage relationships." Mama's Health . N.p., 2011. Web. 5 Apr. 2011.<http://www.mamashealth.com/>.Couric, Katie. "30% of Teens Report Abuse in Relationships." CBS New. N.p., 3 Dec. 2011. Web. 6 Apr. 2011. </http://www.cbsnews.com/sections/eveningnews/main3420.shtml>.
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